每个人的人生都会找到四个人
第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人，
第三个是最爱你的人，
第四个是共度一生的人.
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然後体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，
才会知道什么是你需要的，也才会找到最适合你，
能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，
这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
当一个人不爱你要离开你，你要问自己还爱不爱他，
如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，
而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
爱不是占有，你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，如果你真爱一个人，
就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好，也爱他的坏：
爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，绝不能因为爱他，
就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，万一变不成就不爱他了。
真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，你只知道无论何时何地、
心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你；
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
分开是一种必然的考验，如果你们感情不够稳固，
只好认输，真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
两人在谈情说爱的时候，最喜欢叫对方发誓，
许下承诺我们为什么要对方发誓，就是因为我们不相信对方 ，
我们根本不相信情人，而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际：
海枯石烂、地老天荒，都不能改变我对你的爱!
明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒；
就算会，也活不到那时候。许下诺言的时候千万注意，
不要许下可以实现的诺言，最好是承诺做不到的事，
反正做不到的，随便说说也不要紧，
请记住：”不可能实现的诺言最动人”在爱情里，说的是一套，做的是另一套；讲的人不相信，
听的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第几个？茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？
Monday, June 25, 2007
it has been a while since i blog..
Hmm.. last week a hectic day i got little rest time for my weekend.
Last week NDP was nice, there are firework display. It has been a long while since i see firework at close range, the last one should be the New Year one too bad that day rain so we had to abort the plan. Hope to see it again this coming weekend NDP rehearsal.
Hmm.. last week a hectic day i got little rest time for my weekend.
Last week NDP was nice, there are firework display. It has been a long while since i see firework at close range, the last one should be the New Year one too bad that day rain so we had to abort the plan. Hope to see it again this coming weekend NDP rehearsal.
Monday, June 18, 2007
Another weeks had past..
Last week i did not manage to clear my leaves cause i was call back for lesson and commander training.
Last week NDP was a wet one, cause its rain almost for the whole afternoon. I also get the chance to interact with most of my group mates.
Today, i went to Alexandar Hospital for my medical appointment. The doc pressed damn hard on the "pain area" of my knee that i bite my lip and curse and swear. Until now, i could still feel the pain.
I also manage to find the essay on the tree. Going to book in le. Hope that this week will also be another fun and calm week.
A story about Tree, Leaf and the Wind
Tree
===
The reason I'm called tree is because I'm good at painting trees. Overtime I start to use a tree on the right hand corner as a trademark for all my watercolors painting. I have dated 5 gals when I was in Pre-U. There's one gal who I love a lot but never dare go after her. She doesn't have a pretty face, doesn't have a good figure, doesn't have outstanding charm. She is just a very ordinary gal.
I like her. I really like her. Like her innocent, like her frankness. Like her cuteness, like her intelligence and her fragility. Reason for not going after her is because I felt somebody so ordinary like her is not a good match for me. I'm also afraid that after we are together all the good feelings will vanish. I'm also afraid other's gossips will hurt her. I felt that if she's my gal, she will be mine ultimately & I don't have to give up everything just for her. The last reason, made her accompany me for 3 years. She watch me chase after gals, and I have make her heart cry for 3 years.
She wants to be a good actress and I'm a very demanding director. When I kissed my 2nd girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smile & say "Go on!" before running off. The next day, her eyes was swollen like a walnut. I purposely didn't want to think about what causes her to cry but laugh at her the whole day. When everybody go back home, she was alone crying in the classroom. She didn't know that I returned from soccer training to get something. I watch her cry for an hour or so.
My 4th girlfriend didn't like her. There was once when both of them quarreled. I know that based on her character she's not the type that will start off the quarrel. But I still sided with my girlfriend. I shouted at her and her eyes was filled shocked. I didn't care about her feelings and walked off with my girlfriend. The next day, she still laugh & joke with me like nothing has ever happened. I know that she's very hurt but she didn't know that my heart ache is as bad as hers.
When I broke up with my 5th girlfriend, I asked her out. After going out for a day, I told her that I have something to tell her. She told me that coincidentally, she has something to tell me too. I told her about my break up and she told me about her getting together. I know whose the guy. He has been going after her for quite a while. A very cute guy full of energy, lively and interesting. His pursuit for her has been the talk of the school.
I can't show her my heart ache but could only smile & congratulate her. When I reach home, the heart ache is so strong that I can't stand it. It's like a heavy weighted stone on my chest. I couldn't breath. Wanted to shout but can't. Tears rolled down & I broke down & cry. How many times have I seen her cry for the man that doesn't acknowledge her presence too.
During graduation, I read a sms in my hp. It was send 10 days ago when I broke down and cry. I haven't read it since then. It says "Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay"
Quotes:
"Leaf's departure is because of Wind's pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay"
"Leaf's heart is too heavy and wind couldn't blow her away."
"It's not that leaf heart is too heavy. It because leaf never want to leave tree."
Tree
===
The reason I'm called tree is because I'm good at painting trees. Overtime I start to use a tree on the right hand corner as a trademark for all my watercolors painting. I have dated 5 gals when I was in Pre-U. There's one gal who I love a lot but never dare go after her. She doesn't have a pretty face, doesn't have a good figure, doesn't have outstanding charm. She is just a very ordinary gal.
I like her. I really like her. Like her innocent, like her frankness. Like her cuteness, like her intelligence and her fragility. Reason for not going after her is because I felt somebody so ordinary like her is not a good match for me. I'm also afraid that after we are together all the good feelings will vanish. I'm also afraid other's gossips will hurt her. I felt that if she's my gal, she will be mine ultimately & I don't have to give up everything just for her. The last reason, made her accompany me for 3 years. She watch me chase after gals, and I have make her heart cry for 3 years.
She wants to be a good actress and I'm a very demanding director. When I kissed my 2nd girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smile & say "Go on!" before running off. The next day, her eyes was swollen like a walnut. I purposely didn't want to think about what causes her to cry but laugh at her the whole day. When everybody go back home, she was alone crying in the classroom. She didn't know that I returned from soccer training to get something. I watch her cry for an hour or so.
My 4th girlfriend didn't like her. There was once when both of them quarreled. I know that based on her character she's not the type that will start off the quarrel. But I still sided with my girlfriend. I shouted at her and her eyes was filled shocked. I didn't care about her feelings and walked off with my girlfriend. The next day, she still laugh & joke with me like nothing has ever happened. I know that she's very hurt but she didn't know that my heart ache is as bad as hers.
When I broke up with my 5th girlfriend, I asked her out. After going out for a day, I told her that I have something to tell her. She told me that coincidentally, she has something to tell me too. I told her about my break up and she told me about her getting together. I know whose the guy. He has been going after her for quite a while. A very cute guy full of energy, lively and interesting. His pursuit for her has been the talk of the school.
I can't show her my heart ache but could only smile & congratulate her. When I reach home, the heart ache is so strong that I can't stand it. It's like a heavy weighted stone on my chest. I couldn't breath. Wanted to shout but can't. Tears rolled down & I broke down & cry. How many times have I seen her cry for the man that doesn't acknowledge her presence too.
During graduation, I read a sms in my hp. It was send 10 days ago when I broke down and cry. I haven't read it since then. It says "Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay"
Quotes:
"Leaf's departure is because of Wind's pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay"
"Leaf's heart is too heavy and wind couldn't blow her away."
"It's not that leaf heart is too heavy. It because leaf never want to leave tree."
Monday, June 11, 2007
Monday, June 04, 2007
Surprise to those who visit this blog..
I have change another blog skin..
Last saturday, i was at Marina Bay Floating platform for the NDP Rehersal. I will be there on every Saturday till National Day for those who wishing to see me, I will be there without fail. Haha.. Talking about the NDP PA group that i am put in charge, majority of them are young girl age ranging from 14 to 22 years old, there are also guys among them. Sometime there can be very quiet and leave u alone, but sometime they can be quite nosiy and move around. For me, i am in charge of all their every meals and their basic need at the rehersal and most important i am in charge of their attendance at the floating platform, to ensure that when its PA turn to perform all of them are there.
After the rehersal, i meet up with my poly classmates for midnight Movie, "Pirate of the Car.. The World End" at the Cathey Dobhy Ghaut. The seat was super comfortable and the show effect was great. I had a great laugh from the movie, it was fill with comedy and action.
Yesterday, i was at home formatting my laptop. Now it perform like a brand new laptop but it also wasted one day of my time. Sigh~
Share with u some shocking moment, for my sec sch classmates and sec schmate to take note. Guys and gers have u come across the Star Search advertisement on the Wheelchair one? U take a closer look at the ger on the wheelchair and u will know. haha.. I discover it when i was performing my guard com duty on Vesak Day..
I have change another blog skin..
Last saturday, i was at Marina Bay Floating platform for the NDP Rehersal. I will be there on every Saturday till National Day for those who wishing to see me, I will be there without fail. Haha.. Talking about the NDP PA group that i am put in charge, majority of them are young girl age ranging from 14 to 22 years old, there are also guys among them. Sometime there can be very quiet and leave u alone, but sometime they can be quite nosiy and move around. For me, i am in charge of all their every meals and their basic need at the rehersal and most important i am in charge of their attendance at the floating platform, to ensure that when its PA turn to perform all of them are there.
After the rehersal, i meet up with my poly classmates for midnight Movie, "Pirate of the Car.. The World End" at the Cathey Dobhy Ghaut. The seat was super comfortable and the show effect was great. I had a great laugh from the movie, it was fill with comedy and action.
Yesterday, i was at home formatting my laptop. Now it perform like a brand new laptop but it also wasted one day of my time. Sigh~
Share with u some shocking moment, for my sec sch classmates and sec schmate to take note. Guys and gers have u come across the Star Search advertisement on the Wheelchair one? U take a closer look at the ger on the wheelchair and u will know. haha.. I discover it when i was performing my guard com duty on Vesak Day..
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