Monday, June 25, 2007

每个人的人生都会找到四个人

第一个是自己,

第二个是你最爱的人,

第三个是最爱你的人,

第四个是共度一生的人.

首先会遇到你最爱的人,然後体会到爱的感觉;

因为了解被爱的感觉,所以才能发现最爱你的人;

当你经历过爱人与被爱,学会了爱,

才会知道什么是你需要的,也才会找到最适合你,

能够相处一辈子的人。

但很悲哀的,在现实生活中,

这三个人通常不是同一个人;

你最爱的,往往没有选择你;

最爱你的,往往不是你最爱的;

而最长久的,偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的,

只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。

你,会是别人生命中的第几个人呢?

没有人是故意要变心的,他爱你的时候是真的爱你,

可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了,

他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你;

同样的,他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。

当一个人不爱你要离开你,你要问自己还爱不爱他,

如果你也不爱他了,千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开;

如果你还爱他,你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐,

希望他跟真正爱的人在一起,绝不会阻止,

你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福,就表示你已经不爱他了,

而如果你不爱他,你又有什么资格指责他变心呢?

爱不是占有,你喜欢月亮,不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里,

但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。

换句话说,你爱一个人,也可以用另一种方式拥有,

让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆,如果你真爱一个人,

就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好,也爱他的坏:

爱他的优点,也爱他的缺点,绝不能因为爱他,

就希望他变成自己所希望的样子,万一变不成就不爱他了。

真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的,你只知道无论何时何地、

心情好坏,你都希望这个人陪著你;

真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守,也就是没有丝毫要求。

毕竟,感情必须付出,而不是只想获得;

分开是一种必然的考验,如果你们感情不够稳固,

只好认输,真爱是不会变成怨恨的。

两人在谈情说爱的时候,最喜欢叫对方发誓,

许下承诺我们为什么要对方发誓,就是因为我们不相信对方 ,

我们根本不相信情人,而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际:

海枯石烂、地老天荒,都不能改变我对你的爱!

明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒;

就算会,也活不到那时候。许下诺言的时候千万注意,

不要许下可以实现的诺言,最好是承诺做不到的事,

反正做不到的,随便说说也不要紧,

请记住:”不可能实现的诺言最动人”在爱情里,说的是一套,做的是另一套;讲的人不相信,
听的人也不相信。

你呢?找到了第几个?茫茫人海中,你遇见了谁?谁又遇见了你?
it has been a while since i blog..
Hmm.. last week a hectic day i got little rest time for my weekend.
Last week NDP was nice, there are firework display. It has been a long while since i see firework at close range, the last one should be the New Year one too bad that day rain so we had to abort the plan. Hope to see it again this coming weekend NDP rehearsal.

Monday, June 18, 2007




Another weeks had past..
Last week i did not manage to clear my leaves cause i was call back for lesson and commander training.
Last week NDP was a wet one, cause its rain almost for the whole afternoon. I also get the chance to interact with most of my group mates.
Today, i went to Alexandar Hospital for my medical appointment. The doc pressed damn hard on the "pain area" of my knee that i bite my lip and curse and swear. Until now, i could still feel the pain.
I also manage to find the essay on the tree. Going to book in le. Hope that this week will also be another fun and calm week.
A story about Tree, Leaf and the Wind

Tree
===
The reason I'm called tree is because I'm good at painting trees. Overtime I start to use a tree on the right hand corner as a trademark for all my watercolors painting. I have dated 5 gals when I was in Pre-U. There's one gal who I love a lot but never dare go after her. She doesn't have a pretty face, doesn't have a good figure, doesn't have outstanding charm. She is just a very ordinary gal.
I like her. I really like her. Like her innocent, like her frankness. Like her cuteness, like her intelligence and her fragility. Reason for not going after her is because I felt somebody so ordinary like her is not a good match for me. I'm also afraid that after we are together all the good feelings will vanish. I'm also afraid other's gossips will hurt her. I felt that if she's my gal, she will be mine ultimately & I don't have to give up everything just for her. The last reason, made her accompany me for 3 years. She watch me chase after gals, and I have make her heart cry for 3 years.
She wants to be a good actress and I'm a very demanding director. When I kissed my 2nd girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smile & say "Go on!" before running off. The next day, her eyes was swollen like a walnut. I purposely didn't want to think about what causes her to cry but laugh at her the whole day. When everybody go back home, she was alone crying in the classroom. She didn't know that I returned from soccer training to get something. I watch her cry for an hour or so.
My 4th girlfriend didn't like her. There was once when both of them quarreled. I know that based on her character she's not the type that will start off the quarrel. But I still sided with my girlfriend. I shouted at her and her eyes was filled shocked. I didn't care about her feelings and walked off with my girlfriend. The next day, she still laugh & joke with me like nothing has ever happened. I know that she's very hurt but she didn't know that my heart ache is as bad as hers.
When I broke up with my 5th girlfriend, I asked her out. After going out for a day, I told her that I have something to tell her. She told me that coincidentally, she has something to tell me too. I told her about my break up and she told me about her getting together. I know whose the guy. He has been going after her for quite a while. A very cute guy full of energy, lively and interesting. His pursuit for her has been the talk of the school.
I can't show her my heart ache but could only smile & congratulate her. When I reach home, the heart ache is so strong that I can't stand it. It's like a heavy weighted stone on my chest. I couldn't breath. Wanted to shout but can't. Tears rolled down & I broke down & cry. How many times have I seen her cry for the man that doesn't acknowledge her presence too.
During graduation, I read a sms in my hp. It was send 10 days ago when I broke down and cry. I haven't read it since then. It says "Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay"

Quotes:

"Leaf's departure is because of Wind's pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay"

"Leaf's heart is too heavy and wind couldn't blow her away."

"It's not that leaf heart is too heavy. It because leaf never want to leave tree."

Monday, June 11, 2007

Another week had pass..

9 June 2007, Saturday, marked the first year of my NS life. It also mean that in another 1 more year time i am going to ord.. can't wait for that day to come.

This week i am going to clear my NDP off day on Wednesday and Thursday..

Monday, June 04, 2007

Surprise to those who visit this blog..
I have change another blog skin..

Last saturday, i was at Marina Bay Floating platform for the NDP Rehersal. I will be there on every Saturday till National Day for those who wishing to see me, I will be there without fail. Haha.. Talking about the NDP PA group that i am put in charge, majority of them are young girl age ranging from 14 to 22 years old, there are also guys among them. Sometime there can be very quiet and leave u alone, but sometime they can be quite nosiy and move around. For me, i am in charge of all their every meals and their basic need at the rehersal and most important i am in charge of their attendance at the floating platform, to ensure that when its PA turn to perform all of them are there.

After the rehersal, i meet up with my poly classmates for midnight Movie, "Pirate of the Car.. The World End" at the Cathey Dobhy Ghaut. The seat was super comfortable and the show effect was great. I had a great laugh from the movie, it was fill with comedy and action.

Yesterday, i was at home formatting my laptop. Now it perform like a brand new laptop but it also wasted one day of my time. Sigh~

Share with u some shocking moment, for my sec sch classmates and sec schmate to take note. Guys and gers have u come across the Star Search advertisement on the Wheelchair one? U take a closer look at the ger on the wheelchair and u will know. haha.. I discover it when i was performing my guard com duty on Vesak Day..

Monday, May 21, 2007


Still remember the years we left Springfield? Time did flies faster than we expected, so fast it has been 5 years since that day. For some, we have already know each other for more than 10 years, for some we have know each other for 6 years.
How i wish the i can turn back the hand of time and once again know you guys and gers again cause that is the most memorable periods of all. Where there are little worries, fun moments, joy, love and most of all friendship that can never be brought no matter how much money u have in this world.
Overseas Trip to Tawian..
Share with u guys and gers some photo of taiwan when i am there for a trip.

Taking Taiwan MRT to famous tourist site, Xi Men Tin and Shi Lin Night Market. I am not kidding u guy, Thought it look like our train but where can our train corner seat occupy 3 person?
Their Shi Lin night market was the most fun of all.. I went there for 2 night just to eat their local delight and shop around for souvenior to bring home.
Xin Men Tin was another site i like best, it look something like ours bugis street but it is bigger and more streets to shop. I spend a short 3hrs on the second day of my trip. But on the last day, i spend my entire days there. I brought a nike shirt for myself, a pair of ear ring for dear, a levis shirt for my bro and some local delight for my mum and dad. I also try the catch doll machines at xin men tin, guess what totally i caught 4 winnie the pooh baby bear, 1 trigger, 1 doraemon. It was super easy compare to Singapore one and its only cost Taiwan $10 (S$0.50).




At one of their entertainment theme park call Lui Fu Cun Le Yuan. Over here i try the condon ride.. Sorry guy got no pic to show. It is a ride that only last 3mins and it will take u off within few second to max speed.




This is the Taipei famous garden, Yang Ming Shan. Only manage to find this decent photo. Sigh..

Sunday, May 13, 2007

The recent news on the Taiwan Fighter Jet F-5F that hit Hukou Camp killing 2, injure 9 Singaporean was a shock. Can't imagine if i were to return one month plus later what would happened to me. My sleeping bunk was the building underneath the crash site which is only separated by a road on the slope. Really lucky me..

Going to get busy from now till September, cause i am now on standby notice. Every time when i book out of the camp i hate to hear my handphone ring cause once its ring there maybe a possibility of a need to return back to camp on short 1hr notice. So for this 5months or so i will mostly be hanging around the east side of Singapore so that i will have enough time to response to it.

I am now also helping out in the NDP preparation. My platoon is in-charge of the People Association for the show display. Lots of Sunday already burn for the rehearsal, soon i am also going to burn my Saturday and my freedom is only on Sunday.

Hmm.. I think that should be all bah. Keep u guys and gers update again at next update then. Take care all my friends and loved one.

Sunday, May 06, 2007

Being a long time since i update my blog..
In a month time going to mark my 1year in NS.. Another one more year to go and i will ORD LOH!! How i wish that day will come fast..

Hmm.. what to update? Let me think.... hmm.. uh...
This May going to be super busy in camp, got lots of outfield coming up which mean lots of weekends gonna to be burn le.. Especially sunday, cause now i am helping out in the NDP preparation.

Going for another holiday trip from October 15 onward. Which is going to last for another 3weeks plus or so..

Sunday, April 15, 2007

Last weekend break allow me to do alot of things since i came back from overseas.
Firstly, i get to catch some gd rest at home.
Secondly, i get to have some conversation with my mum and dad.
Thirdly, i get to watch TV programme.
Next, i get to meet up with Hoi San as she return from Hong Kong for holiday and at the same time pay us a visit.
Next, i get to gather with my poly classmates for dinner at suntec city and catch a movie "Shooter" together.
Next, i get to gather with my sec sch classmates at marina square for a game of bowling at the same time dinner at Swensen to celebrate for mine and junhao belated birthday.
Next, get the chance to call stephanie to chat with her awhile and to ask her out for gathering.
Next, i have the chance to call shimin, but she didn't ans my call.. sigh..
Next, will be to have a delicious dinner with my mum, dad and aunties at the coffeeshop underneath my block.
Next, will be able to spend some time with dear and hear her talk.
Lastly, will be i get to have a better and closer look of this home call Singapore and see, feel and discover how much it have change during the days when i am not around.

Monday, April 02, 2007

Times may be tough when dark cloud cast over ur head but once u endure through it,
At the other side of it is a place fill with fulfillment and pride of accomplishment.


One night a man had a dream.
He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord.
Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonging to him, and the other to the Lord.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints.He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life.


This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it.
"Lord, You said that once I decided to follow you, You'd walk with me all the way.
But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me."


The Lord replied,
"My son, My precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I Carried You."

Monday, March 12, 2007


From chinese new year since now, it has already been close to a month.. These are some of the photos that i grab from my cousin, karen.. paiseh ar..
These are some the new year photo taken on the first day.. share with u guys..

Sunday, March 04, 2007


Would not be ard for the next few weeks or throughout the entire March period.. So take care my friends see ya ard soon..




Wednesday, February 21, 2007

Movie/ Show recommend

While watching the tv programme.. There was this short trailer of this korean show that will be shown on this friday night 1130pm.. "Bu Ke Bu Xin Yuan" or " The Classic"

To me i come across this show through Starhub Cable Tv. The very first time i tune to the show i was bored over it and i tune to other channel.. But after a subsequent tune to the channel and watch a bit and abit i began to hook onto it.. It was quite a nice show that fill with romance and comedy.. Cause its from the same director of "my sassy girlfriend" and "windstruck"..
Hope that u will like it... Not a bad movie.. **** out of 5 stars

Give u a preview or trailer of the show/movie..
http://www.petalia.org/Funpage/Phim/theclassic.htm
HaPpY LuNaR NeW YeAr.. GONG XI FA CAI

Finally new year have arrived, same goes for my 6 days of long break.. i was sick after the 4 days 3 night fieldcamp. I was back home on thursday night and went straight to bed after popping 2 panadol due to fever..

Day 1,
I went to west coast for the ATI 5km LIVE run in the morning. I never participate in the run due to my flu since i return from fieldcamp.. I went to see the doc after the event but before that i went down to Tampines Mall to get myself a sling bag.. The doc say i had a heavy flu and my temp at that time was 38.8'c amazingly i am still able to drag myself back home.. After taking my medicine, i doze off while watching tv programme..
At evening time, my dear and i went to Tampines mall foodcourt for our dinner. After the dinner we walk abit and i send her off at the MRT station. From there, i went to find my parents to do a last mins shopping for foods and new year decoration.

Day 2,
Intend to go to SIR building to have my passport extended, but due to the heavy flu and the aching i slept till 3pm. After i had awake, my eyes was on the tv cause there were alot of good movies show on the AXN channel. Had my reunion dinner at evening time. I slept quite early after i taken my medicine..

Day 3 (Cui 1),
At 12pm, i reached my grandma house at pasir ris.. Had a yummy lunch of 3layers meat in soya sauce with other dishes.. Every year the topics are the same, especially for this year it is a focus cause majority of the grow up already have a partner. My grandma is curious of those who yet to have. It was a big gathering, and laughter was all over and not forgetting some discussion of serious stuff like work and political.
Ard 2, i was at Toa Payoh my grandma sis house or i usually call her "er yi po".. Sit down there for a while, my eyes most of the time was either on my hp or tv never chat with them alot cause i was not close to them.
By 4pm, i was at Kallang Bahru my last destination, my mum mum house.. There were already alot of ppl by the time i reached. The first thing even before i enter the house was my 4th uncle call me to look at his laptop.. Had my steamboat dinner ard a small dining table surround by lot of ppl.. my clothes was all wet cause it was damn warm.. After dinner we chit chat awhile follow by the same usual event every new year will have, gamble of 21 points.. I never really play cause my luck was very lousy every year.. Reached more ard 1130pm.

Day 4 (Cui 2),
I was at home doing my project. its sound weird why still got project to do while serving army, but believe it we still have to do project and there are even project presentation. At evening time, i meet up with my poly classmate for mogolian buffet dinner at park mall lvl 5.. The foods was good and i enjoy myself alot. i was also consider the biggest eater there.. haha..

Day 5 (Cui 3),
Wake up quite early to do my project. My 2 auntie came and my parents together with them have a game of mahjong till quite late.. Suppose to meet up with my sec sch classmate for bian nian one..

Day 6 (Cui 4),
Going to book in today..
Sigh~ written a long paragraph of what i do for the past few day but was void due to connection
Try to write again when i free k..

Anyway, I think that my family is really a big family.. Let me tally and see how many ppl i saw over this new year..

Dad Side (Ong)
1st Generation
(inclusive of 表 and close one)
Grandma + 姨婆: 3
Aunties: 3
Uncles: 4
Total: 17 adults (inclusive of their spouse)

2nd Generation
(inclusive of 表 and close one)
Young Boys: 4 (Sec sch and below)
Girls: 4
Grow up: 6
Total: 14

Mum Side (Chua)
1st Generation
(inclusive of 表 and close one)
Grandma + 姨婆: 1 (think so)
Aunties: 2
Uncles: 6 (2 single)
Total: 15 adults (inclusive of their spouse)

2nd Generation
(inclusive of 表 and close one)
Young Boys: 1 (sec sch and below)
Girls: 2
Grow up: 7
Total: 10

Above figure should be correct as of 210207. If incorrect alert me thru the tag or comment k.. thank alot.. Figure compute not inclusive of my dad, mum, bro and me..

Sunday, February 11, 2007

Going to book in le.. Hmm.. Have some uncertain feeling now..

Weekend is always so short compare to normal weekday..
To me the weekend passby me at a flash, i could hardly feel it at all..
Eventhought, i have a much longer weekend than the days i was in SISPEC and BMT.
I feel that at SISPEC and BMT days the weekend seem much longer and are more meaningful even if its only a less than 38hrs..

gtg.. Ciao.. =)
Being a long time since i blog.. Have been busy quite lately..

Hmm.. what should i update? Let me think.... ('.')?
Recently, i am on a 3 weeks excuse status from my training due to my knee cap injury during SOC training.. It will expire on 20Feb.. The doc/mo send me for physiotherapy..
Tml i will be going for a 4 days 3 night fieldcamp le. Will be back laying on my own bed on thursday night, after that i will be having a 6 days long break before i book in again for another 2days 1 night fieldcamp.. After that week, i left 1 week to clear my SOC before going overseas from 12 March onward.. Expected date of return is 31 March (*subjected to changes)

Chinese New Year coming, so fast a year had already past.. haha.. =)
Wishes all a Happy Chinese New Year..